Do you have teammates that you don’t get along with too well? Or are there guys on your team who are solely focused on their accolades instead of the team’s? Well you’re not alone. I think everyone has had a few bad teammates like this that make it so hard for you to root for them. Bad teammates cause so many problems for a team. Some teammates even fake like they care just to get what they want. Just because someone seems to have your best interest doesn’t mean they care for you. Which is a very deceiving but truthful idea that goes on in our world.
Every sports player in America has had their fair share of teammates who are very selfish and only focus on themselves. If you don’t think you fit into that category, then maybe you were that selfish kid that everyone dislikes. It’s very disappointing as a teammate to realize that someone you play hard and compete for every day, doesn’t have the same respect for you as you do for them. This usually causes tension between teammates. Tension between each other will affect practices, games and even the friendship of two people. In the game is the biggest problem because if your players don’t like each other they’re now going to want to give someone else the ball. It’s a small problem that can become huge. So how do we fix it?
One of the best options in this situation is to show that person an extreme level of kindness. Show them that you have their back and are willing to fight for them. For some players all it takes is a change of heart that makes them realize how they have acted or treated others. You should always attack situations like this carefully because not all people will respond well right away. But it’s not always on the other person to be better. The best way to treat others and become a better teammate is focusing on teaching yourself that concept first.
In becoming a better teammate personally, you should always try to be as selfless as possible. Focus on others’ happiness before yours and good things will come around to you. Secondly, you should always have a great attitude towards your coaches and teammates. When you give someone a feeling that you trust and believe in them then they will want to give that same energy back. This translates to something as simple as your teammate scoring a basket or making a good move. Everyone loves to feel validated by their peers that they have done a great job, it’s human nature. But if you follow these steps then things will definitely change.
If you still feel after all these adjustments that your teammate still doesn’t care then what should you do? Should you give the same energy to them that they give to you? I believe the best route is to always be the bigger person. Don’t stoop to anyone’s level based on how they treat you. Always choose to treat others how you want to be treated. If you have any more suggestions or thoughts don’t hesitate to post more comments or ideas on my page.
The message I hope you learned from the post is to always treat other people with respect and dignity. No matter how they treat you, choosing to be the better person is always the best option. Don’t forget to comment on my posts to give me more topics to choose from. Also like, share, comment and subscribe to my blog to see my recent posts. Thank you for the support.